my two weeed smoking girlfriends and . yes. ok yeah no they don't smoke weed. i lied about that. sorry. i wanted you to think my girlfriends are cool. no yeah theyre not very cool, theyre actually kind of lame . and crazyinsane but no they dont smoke weed theyre afraid of drugs i just tell people they smoke weed so i sound more badass. do you still thimk im hot
Reblog to bonk your mutuals on the head every time they start thinking negatively about themselves
Rejection-sensitive or not, you have to accept when people say “no” and realize that people’s “no” is not about you. A boundary is never about you, it’s about that person’s sense of security. Do not make people’s personal limits a matter of targeted offence.
DO NOT VOLUNTEER TO BE A CO-SIGNER OR GUARANTOR FOR SOMEONE ON TUMBLR.
I just saw a 'mutual aid' post going around where instead of asking for donations, the person was asking someone to be a "guarantor" - also known as a "co-signer" - for their rent.
DO NOT DO THIS.
I am all for mutual aid. I think credit scores are a scam designed to fuck poor people. I get it. I do. BUT. Being a guarantor/co-signer for someone basically means that if they don't pay what they owe, for whatever reason, their landlord, bank, creditors, etc. can and will come after you for the full amount.
It seems like such an easy way to help someone. You don't need to pay any money, just lend them your name and good reputation so they can get permission to borrow and spend their own money. It feels like you're getting one over on the shitty capitalist system and using your privilege of good credit/income to help someone else.
But it is a HUGE risk. Do not do this. All it does is give that shitty system more ways to get their hooks into you and create tons of problems for you down the line.
You can really fuck yourself over in the long run by getting tangled up in a financial situation like this. Even co-signing for someone in your life who you trust, like a sibling or a parent, can be really risky. No matter how much you trust someone not to purposefully leave you holding the bag, now you're on the hook if they end up with financial problems neither of you anticipated.
Do not co-sign for another person's loan, car, rent, etc. unless you are able and prepared to pay the full amount or subject yourself to the mercy of whatever that person gets themselves into.
ESPECIALLY do not do this for someone on the internet, where scams are rife. Do not share your personal information with people online and NEVER allow someone else to use your personal information for their finances.
when florence and the machine said "I find that happiness is an extremely uneventful subject" and when romeo x juliet said "a simple life with you would be paradise" and johnathan coulton said "it's okay, I like you in glasses" and everything everywhere all at once said "in another life I would have really liked just doing laundry and taxes with you"
How you doing friend
realizing more and more as I grow older that a mundane and imperfect life shared with the people I love is all I could ever really want or need and that I'm so thankful for the chance to experience it hbu
wrote about 600 words of this commission today…
eno.txt i want to finish it soooooon. this one has been a long time coming.
Anonymous asked
wanted to tell you something cool if you didn't know already -- HACHI the guy who made vocaloid history song matryoshka is now the guy who made the OP song for chainsaw man (Kenshi Yonezu! his artist career is so interesting also all his songs are bangers) thanks for reading :)
ohhhh that’s genuinely fascinating!!! my spotify history shows my love for both of those songs, ehehe, so that’s really interesting to know—thank you!








